“Chocolate is never the wrong gift. Go for the heart shaped box!”

“buy your special person a gift”

“She will smell better with body lotion, showert gel and frangrance all of the same scent.”

“Before youy get her pierced diamond earrings / make sure she can wear pierced earrings (some women can not)”

“Consider skipping flowers if she has cats that like to eat them. A good alternative is a catnip plant.”

“Find out her favorite flowers before valentines day, instead of afterwards, when she hates them,”

“smell fresh!”

“Do remember to appeal to & excite each of her senses. A fragrant soap, lotion or candle is great for sense of smell. A homemade CD with a playlist of all her favorite songs is great for sense of hearing. A homemade meal prepared by you or ordered from her favorite restaurant is perfect for sense of taste. A nice foot, back & neck massage appeals to sense of touch. And of course, for sense of sight, how about wearing a shirt she loves or cutting hair & beard as she likes? Definitely DO all of these things & she'll remember this Valentine's Day for years to come.”

“Make her something, art, music, a poem, whatever, something especially for her. The only thing it will cost you is your time. But she will appreciate the love that went into it. One of the best presents my husband ever gave me was an item he made especially for me.”

“It's a recession -- what she's dreaming of this year might be best given with a single flower and a gift card (especially to a place like The Body Shop, where a woman can pick EXACTLY the combination of products that gives her the greatest Valentine joy!). You need to know the lady (she may be most excited by a cordless drill or two large rump roasts) but if you pick the unorthodox gift choice, it may reap the largest dividends for you as loving giver.”

“flowers, candle lit dinner, bubble bath, and massage”

“Buy a dozen of red roses and take her to the movies.”

“A smile a day goes a long way, even before Valentine's Day.”

“Take her out to a romantic candlelight dinner.”

“Ask her how she would like to celebrate with you.”

“Do give a massage with lotion- twice!”

“Do treat her like a princess.”

“Light a Spa Wisdom Candle, pour her a glass of red win and give her a massage!”

“Buy her perfume”

“I love receiving flowers at work, but send "HIM" something special at work -- He will love it!!!!”

“Do buy her some nice jewelry.”

“Be thoughtful about where he/she likes to dine, what he/she likes to do, and get them something specific to their personality.”

“Buy her something sexy”

“Even of your not normally romantic, try to come out of your comfort zone.Compliment her & tell her how much you love her. Ladies will give you hints on ideas a lot of times.”

“Always surprise her with flowers!”

“Don't ask her what she wants!”

“Do and/or say something nice everyday to let her know that you appreciate her.”

“Do get a babysitter.”

“Do make sure she doesn't have to cook dinner.”

“Do give her a foot rub or back massage.”

“put on extra moisturizer before walking in winter cold”

“Give each other full attention, as if you're madly in love, when you're out. It makes others happy.Flowers,chocolate,jewelry,and candles are perfect together.If you're going to propose,have all 4,that's what my husband did, and he got me,for good! Also music and a good speech,that really made me want to say yes, when he asked me to marry him.”

“Create a Small "Love U" Book. Come up with some lovey dovey quotes, ad a photo, and some memories (suck as ticket stubs / etc).”

“If you are a bad cook, don't try to cook as a Valentine's Day.”

“Do try and surprise her by doing something fun and different.”

“Wear vanilla scented products/perfume. It supposably attracts men.”

“Give from your heart.”

“Create your own card instead of buying one - cheaper + it will be treasured more.”

“Do Cuddle!!!!”

“Do something simple and sweet that he/she would least expect.”

“Do open the car door for her.”

“Do something nice when it is unexpected.”

“Do take the time to dress well.”

“Do kiss the ones you love.”

“Do leave a "I love you note" in a lunchbox or somewhere else they will notice later.”

“say Happy Valentine's Day as soon as you wake”

“make it a special gift, think about it!”

“Do say "I love you."”

“Plan a surprise, romantic weekend travel getaway.”

“Make a romantic dinner at home.”

“jewelry is always a good idea”

“Ask her BEFORE Valentine's Day what she like.”

“Don't just guess on her size when buying lingerie!”

“Keep it simple and make it all about her!”

“Do give a gift with a personal meaning - that will show you've been listening the other 364 days of the year!”

“Make everyday Valentine's Day and express your love by helping around the house!”

“Pay extra attention to her and make sure you appreciate all she does for you all year”

“Kiss her everywhere possible.”

“Show that you love him/her, not just say it!”

“LISTEN... She/he HAS dropped hints, you just haven't heard them, lol.”

“Get her a box of good quality chocalate and a nice card”

“think of her likes when buying a present”

“drink water”

“get up early”

“Do something that's unique to your relationship.”

“Do something the day before or after VD”

“Do find those little hearts with insults on them for fun, and give them out to people at work”

“Do give her something that's unique to her interests.”

“Plan a Valentine's Day pot luck with your friends! This way, you can share a dish you love with people you love, rather than stress about "finding" love!”

“Do please get me a gift certificate to my favorite local yarn store because you have never done it before and it would make someone happy.”

“Listen to your loved one and do something that you know they'll want to do, even if it isn't what you would want to do.”

“Remember back when you were little? Remember how you liked to jump, climb, walk, play? Well, bring the kid back out in you. If you have children...play with them. Remember hopscotch, wow, that was fun, teach your children.”

“Do praise your SO to other people in front of them (or at least in their hearing), especially when they have done something sweet and unexpected!”

“Do learn about your SO's hobbies, even if they don't thrill you. It comes in handy for birthdays!”

“Do learn a little about your S.O. hobbies and interests, even if it doesn't thrill you.”

“Do whatever your partner wants--there is always tomorrow for your wants.”

“Drink lot of water, take omegas, and use essential oils or refreshment”

“Flowers and candy may be traditional, but be creative with your gift to her.”

“Buy her coffee, chocolate, or whatever treat she loves!”

“Tell her she is Beautiful & Make her laugh”

“Help her with the housework”

“Use hand lotion after washing dishes to keep hands soft and young looking!”

“Make her feel like a Queen!”

“Always tell the truth.”

“Don't sweat the small stuff - just smile and move on.”

“Make her feel special by being very attentive.”

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“Always be honest!”

“Put in a little effort and give something that you know they would enjoy or have always wanted.”

“Keep the relationship fresh & new by trying new activities to do together, as opposed to getting stuck in a rut always doing the same types of things together, mix it up! Life has so much to offer!”

“enjoy your time together”

“always be honest and open about your feelings”

“Do be sincere.”

“Do stand up for her in an argument with others”

“Do: Tell her you love her !!!”

“Do listen actively.”

“tell her she is beautiful, evn if her hair is messed up.”

“bring your girl some nice flowers and take her to a nice dinner - her favorite place not some dinky mcdonalds”

“Do sympathize with her - don't give her advice!”

“Do wash dishes after she cooks for you.”

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“Use Baby wash as an eye make up remover”

“Make her a yummy dinner.”

“give flowers”

“never say no”

“buy low, sell high.”

“exercise every day”

“Get enough sleep.”

“Learn her favorite song on the piano or classical guitar and serenade her. (Use a CD for the next best option.)”

“Do be generous with your time for those you really love.”

“Laugh everyday! Even if it's at yourself!”

“Do buy yourself a little something instead of waiting for someone else to buy it for you!”

“Kiss her passionately.”

“Snuggle with your honey.”

“surprise her by coming home early from work with flowers and candy”

“more than words...”

“Try to make her laugh.”

“For the men--shower, shave and wear clean clothes before taking her out on a date.”

“Pay attention to what she likes, so she doesn't have to tell you what to get.”

“Brush your teeth before you meet her.”

“hold hands in public”

“Do remember her name.”

“Surprise them with a massage!”

“Do get a card, flowers and a gift. It doesn't have to be expensive.”

“Pay attention to her from the neck UP!”

“excitement is the spice of life”

“Use chapstick on your lips so you're ready to kiss your loved ones this Valentine's Day!”

“Avoid the hallmark cards and standard dates. Do something special this Valentine's day that lets her know you understand just how special she is.”

“snuggle, snuggle, snuggle”

“Always remeber to make time for your love ones!”

“Do EAT BREAKFAST!”

“Do share your umbrella with a stranger”

“Make time for those you love, even if only for a few minutes a day.”

“Hug for at least 30 seconds every day.”

“Smile”

“Do put some thought into the gifts you give. Try to personalize things. Take notes when they talk about things and shop for things. They will appreciate the 'research.'h”

“Tell each other "I love you" every day.”

“Do bring flowers”

“Get enough sleep”

“Do be creatively original and remember that doing little things, before whatever big thing you have planned, is akin to foreplay before the main act. Selah.”

“Kiss eachother goodnight”

“Put a little thought in it. I think the best gift come from the heart. It needs to be a gift that reflects who she is.”

“Relive one of your most memorable dates.”

“be good”

“Write her a love note in lip stick on the mirror.”

“Do think of consequences to your actions!”

“Slather up your hands with petroleum jelly at night and put on a pair of white cotton gloves. Your hands will be soft and smooth in the morning!”

“Tell her the truth about how you feel about her.”

“Realize that spending time together is the most important thing.”

“Understand that it really is the thought that counts not the amount of money you spend!”

“Do smell good all over.”

“Do keep the mood light and fun - make him/her laugh!”

“Do smile!!!”

“Express your interest. Do ask about her life.”

“Remember the small things do count. Don't go overboard on a date. Opening the door and a small bouquet of flower will get you a long way.”

“MOsturize frequently”

“Do surprise her with an unexpected gift.”

“exercise to make yourself look great for your spouse”

“Do the dishes unasked.”

“Make arrangements for a babysitter, without her knowing, and have the house lit up with candles, and dinner cooked, for an awesome at home "date night" Especially when you have 6 children, like I do ! ”

“play guitar hero”

“Send flowers "Just Beacause".”

“Give your sweetheart jewelry for valentines.”

“Compliment her”

“Do open the car door for her.”

“do talk nice.”

“Remember your significant other's birthday.”

“Always remember your manners when you are with someone you love!”

“Eat your vegetables.”

“Give her a long kiss.”

“Don't pick your nose”

“Do check your breath!”

“Do smell good”

“Do surprise her with roses!”

“Do Shower !”

“Be understanding!”

“Clean up after yourself!”

“make sure you shave.”

“have fresh breath”

“Do look her in the eyes while you talk!”

“Do always listen to what she is saying and act completely interested while she's talking.”

“Ladies...DO moisturize. Nothing is more of a turn off than scaly skin!”

“Make romantic gestures to maintain the passion!”

“Tell the truth!”

“Keep your word! No matter what it is. Your ability to do as you say shows you can be trusted.”

“Hold doors!”

“Be on time, being late shows disrespect.”

“Tell the truth.”

“Be kind to the body”

“Look at your girl in her eyes when she talks and listen, you don't have to fix everything.”

“Eat fresh fruit! do regular exercise. Think positively!”

“Wash your hands!”

“Don't forget her birthday.”

“Treat him/her like they are the only other person on earth”

“listen when we talk!”

“take action now”

“be playful and cute!”

“Live in the now! Don't waste today thinking about the past.”

“Look right in her eyes and listen when she talks to you. Never watch TV when she wants to talk!”

“Spell correctly when you text or write on blogs. What happened to no child left behind??????????”

“listen to here”

“Don't forget to give her flowers!”

“Tell her she is beautiful every day!”

“Do call when you say you will or if you are running late”

“Call her to say good night.”

“Tell the truth and be honest with each other”

“Listen to what the other person is saying and respond genuinely! Don't think of what you'll say next whil they're talking.”

“Do be a gentleman and pull out your wallet when the check comes.”

“Love your significant other for who they are.””

“Love your significant other for who they are.”

“Do moisturize and use sunscreen- you may not notice the effects now, but you'll be the only one that isn't complaining that they need a plump, peel, or lift later!”

“help your significant other by washing the dishes, picking up after yourself, and all the little things that can really make his/her day go smoother”

“put your S.O. before yourself on this day”

“Do thank your significant other for all the little things they do.”

“listen”

“send roses for valentines day”

“Show that you listen to your significant other by personalizing their Valentine's day gift.I cannot tell you how many times I was surprised by my boyfriend's gift choices from the things to which he paid attention!”

“Pass her a note.”

“Treat people as you want to be treated. Remember what goes around comes around.”

“Give her a romantic card for Valentines Day.”

“Whatever you do, it should come from the heart!”

“support him, don't nag him.”

“Tell her she looks pretty.”

“Do appreciate HIM for all the effort he is making. (Even if it wasn't quite what you expected!)”

“Do look at her in the eyes when she's talking to you.”

“Open the car door for her...open any door for her!”

“Hold her hand”

“Hold her hand”

“Treat her with respect.”

“MAKE HER BREAKFAST IN BED AND INCLUDE A SINGLE RED ROSE IN A VASE AND A HANDWRITTEN CARD THAT SAYS CAN I PLEASE BE YOUR SLAVE FOR THE DAY SIGN WITH IT LOVE THANK YOU FOR YOUR HEART”

“make her feel as though she's the only woman in the room”

“Surprise her and cook her a candle light dinner.”

“Be honest”

“Send her flowers for no reason.”

“Kiss softly.”

“Share your love of jazz and how her eyes sparkle”

“Always think of others..”

“A full body massage. Relax her with a sensual massage. Don't forget her favorite scented oil!”

“try some romance set up a romantic event”

“Always wash your makeup off before you go to bed.”

“Clean up after yourself.”

“Buy her something! Even if its just a chocolate bar from the store, the little things will show her that you are thinking about her and will keep her mind on you.”

“You can use shampoo as body wash”

“Don't be cliche. Some girls like chocolates and flowers, and others like Battlestar Galactica on DVD. Find the gift she would actually want, and not the one that's expected.”

“Use the body shop's shower and bath gels everywhere you go, especially on job interviews and other important meetings.”

“Be genuine”

“Clean the toilet, do the dishes”

“Someone else suggested washing your girlfriend's hair, but you don't need to get messy in the bathroom. What is really sensual is the massage. So, massage her scalp, perhaps in bed . . .”

“Help her clean up after dinner.”

“Bring her flowers! It's not Valentine's Day without them.”

“Give her more than a 2 minute back-rub!”

“listen like you care even if you really don't!”

“many kisses”

“Remember some miniscule detail from nowhere, like that time she wore that butterfly clip with the purple amethyst in her hair when you walked in the park.”

“Wash your face and wait two minutes before applying the moisturizer.”

“Candles, chocolate and jewlery are wonderful but don't hold back the real you.”

“FLOSS!”

“Using a non-greasy moisturizer, give a face massage. Gentle circular strokes on forehead, cheeks, jawline, and around eyes will complement the straight strokes along the nose and eyebrows. S-L-O-W is best.”

“Throw her bath towel in the dryer to warm it up as she's taking a shower so that she can bundle up nice and toasty when she's done.”

“Set aside 10 minutes a day to catch up on how her day was.”

“Rub my feet. No T.V. on or music playing. Just you and me. How great would that direct attention be?”

“Plan something romantic. Cooking dinner is great, and preparing a bubble bath for her to relax in while you are cooking is a perfect start to the night.”

“Write her a list of things you love about her.”

“Alwalys have q-tips on hand. They are great for applying makeup as well as a number of other uses!”

“Do cook for her- and clean up the dishes afterwards”

“Make her breakfast”

“Watch the kids and let her get out for coffee and a book by herself.”

“Buy her flowers - they're not JUST for after you made her angry!”

“Give her a manicure and pedicure at home. It's much more beautiful experience then getting it done outside.”

“Use the hamper..Yes we do have one.”

“Cook her a nice dinner she enjoys.”

“Moisturize you skin daily”

“Come home early from work and make a special dinner.”

“Use coconut oil for a relaxing massage.”

“Pack a few things, including her favorite jeans and take her to a hotel for the night, even if it's local.”

“Cook her a nice romantic meal.”

“Do suprise her by picking up her favorite snack/drink next time you go to the store to get yourself some beer.”

“Help her carry the groceries in the house and put them away without being asked!”

“Do the dishes before she gets the chance to.”

“give her a kiss the first thing every morning and the last thing every night, and when leaving and returning during the day”

“Exfoliate your lips with a washcloth, then moisturize them with a good lip protector that contains sunscreen. Makes for kissable lips!”

“remember to say I love you every day!”

“Rub her feet while sitting next to her on the couch.”

“Make a special lunch for her her and her friends and then leave them alone for some girl time.”

“Tell her she's looking beautiful. Especially, when you can tell she doesn't feel it.”

“Buy gifts for her and toys for her pet!”

“Buy her some flowers!”

“Call her every once in a while just to say I'm thinking of you.”

“Cook something nice.”

“Make sure you get her a gift. This is a biggy. It's the thought that counts”

“Offer to take the kids for a day and arrange for a massage for her!”

“offer to rub her feet before she has to ask”

“Buy her something shiny.”

“Nice backrub with nice smelling lotion.”

“LISTEN to what she says and you will KNOW what she wants as a gift. (If all else fails, call her sister or BFF!)”

“Take her/him dancing.”

“Smile and laugh ever day!”

“If your child gets gum in their hair you can remove it without tugging by putting peanut butter on the wad of gum and working it in until the gum will release.”

“Give her your undivided attention when she wants to tell you something important to her”

“Light the candles and give her a body message with natural essential oils.”

“Give her a night off. You work hard, but acknowledge that she does, too.”

“Keep in mind "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all".”

“DO cater to his or her every need, and make sure he/she knows of your love!”

“It's better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it!”

“cook and feed the kids”

“Always have a smile”

“don't put dirty dishes on top of clean dishes in the dishwasher”

“find the perfect citrus scent for skin and hair”

“Give your sweetheart a massage without getting one back.”

“DO draw her a warm soaking bath and add Spa Wisdom Dreamboat Milk Bath...afterall, you are her Valentine dreamboat. Right?”

“kiss her”

“Cook her dinner once in a while!”

“Listen to her!”

“Treat her like a queen!”

“Eat veggies instead of chips”

“treat each other like you just met them”

“Always treat her like a princess on Valentine's Day and every day!”

“ASk your wife out monthly for a date night! It will help your relationship and be lots of fun!”

“go get'em tiger”

“never give up hope”

“Go to the gym at least 3 times per week.”

“FOOT MASSAGE”

“Look people in the eyes when you are talking to them”

“Run her a bath.”

“Empty the dishwasher with out being asked..”

“Offer to give a massage and a foot rub.”

“Ask her how her day went”

“Take a quick shower with warm, not hot water in the winter to prevent dry skin.”

“Enjoy life and have a pleasent relaxed attitude.”

“Buy your girlfriend something from the Bodyshop she will know you care without any words spoken.”

“Wash the dishes for her.”

“Get proper rest, dont eat junk food!”

“moisture every night & get plenty of sleep.”

“Ask your kids' opinions first to see where they are coming from.”

“Body Oil”

“Eat raw vegetables with lowfat dip instead of salty snacks while watching sports.”

“find a way to motivate your self, like logging miles everyday wheter it is biking, walking running or swimming, make it a habit”

“Drink plenty of water daily, at least 6 glasses!”

“Buy two bottles of bubble bath to keep on hand”

“Eat healthy”

“Remove your makeup completely each day!!”

“Do her routine chores for her”

“Just Cuddle with her and nothing else. Give her a massage, with lotion or baby oil and don't expect more. Such as getting lucky and laid.”

“Do the laundry.”

“Write her a romantic letter!”

“Save all her notes or letters that she sent you.”

“Let her sleep in and bring her breakfast in bed with fresh flowers!”

“Cook a nice Valentine's Day dinnner”

“Do listen to what she's saying”

“Take time to smell the roses.”

“Give her a massage.”

“Take your GF on a romantic getaway for Valentine's Day”

“Buy her a dozen red roses”

“Do put some thought into it.”

“Do give her a gift certificate to her favorite store.”

“Do surprise your wife with flowers and wine. If she's dieting, no candy, please.”

“Take her to dinner”

“Give her jewelry.”

“Make your relationship unique. Do not compare it to other couples. Do something special everyday for your partner.”

“Enclose a handwritten note, explaining why the gift you've chosen is perfect for her and meaningful to you both (for example, the five diamonds in this represent these five key moments in our relationship...)”

“Do take care of yourself...”

“listen, listen, listen!”

“DO remember that a great deal of attraction for many women, starts with mental compatibility and understanding. Show some respect for your lady's feelings, and you'll have half the battle won!”

“Tell her she's beautiful, especially when she's not feeling very pretty!”

“be spontaneous every so often”

“help with chores”

“tell your loved ones I LOVE U at least once per day”

“tell the truth when possible”

“Make her feel special every day with the little things you do”

“eat breakfast everyday”

“tell the truth”

“tell the truth”

“Do make it SPECIAL. Something you don't do any other time of year.”

“Do buy her chocolates for Valentines day...so you have something to eat in case her "Special Meal" burns or just doesn't turn out as planned.”

“Do always carry a tasty snack in your pocket (or the car, or just about anywhere) because there are times you just NEED it.”

“Pay attention and make your loved feel valued every day, not just Valentine's Day.”

“Be confident - have a plan, be flexible, but make everything go in one direction”

“Make a reservation in advance at a nice restaurant. Plan ahead and don't wait until the last minute then your evening will be stress free.”

“take an evening walk around a lake or pond.”

“Make her feel like she's the world to you”

“drink plenty of water, to keep your skin and body in great condition.”

“walk to a store not ride.”

“Always listen to her stories.”

“Always be on time for a date.”

“Surprise him with doing some of the chores he usually does. Cook a favorite meal.”

“Take the stairs, not the elevator”

“Buy her fresh cut flowers like orchids, tulips and roses all the time, not just for special occasions.”

“Touch, touch, hug, touch. Small subtle touches bring tender feelings that will always end up with you together.”

“Use the good china”

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“what makes you feel beautiful”

“Do pamper yourself when you're stressed.”

“remember "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" and your relationship will blossem”

“Do put yourself first!”

“Surprise them with a hand-made card!”

“Turn off your cell phone during a date.”

“flowers and dinner works”

“cook dinner randomly”

“Let her have her space when she really needs it, she will love you for it.”

“never overindulge on alcohal before your first date”

“Say "I love you" everyday!”

“THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU SAY ANYTHING”

“Wash your feet everyday”

“lip balm everyday.”

“Visit a dermotologist to be checked for skin cancer regularly.”

“take out the garbage”

“Do remember to do the little things around the house once in a while because we really do appreciate every small thing.”

“take the high road”

“Put body butter on your feet before bed and sleep with socks during winter months so that your tootsies will be soft for your loved one”

“surprise your loved one by filling up the gas tank.”

“Clean the house, including the toilets...”

“Do try to make Valentine's Day a unique celebration of your love - personalize it!”

“do the dishes for her”

“Cook a meal together!”

“Do remeber that cuddling is a big thing to women,especially afterwards!”

“Do buy her candy & flowers.”

“drink water”

“Walk your dog!”

“Always say I love before they leave..Even if your mad..”

“Want couple activity in the evening...offer to help clean up the house do the dishes, she'll have help with the work and MORE free time...”

“Do take her to the movies”

“Don't watch a movie at home.”

“Do buy her a big diamond ring!”

“Put a fortune cookie in his lunch with your own special message.”

“Surprises with something fabulous.”

“Give your gift in the morning.”

“smile”

“Do kiss him when he leaves for work in the morning. It's a nice send off, and he will think about you during the day.”

“do give her a message and don't think you are going to get something in return..”

“USe the pumice on your feet inthe shower when your feet are wet, hot and soft.”

“Don't just think that flowers are the perfect gift. Get her something personal that reflects what she loves.”

“Don't just tell her you love her, show her everyday.”

“Compliment, compliment, compliment!”

“Do something original that she never expected ... like a tattoo of her name.”

“Do wash your face everyday to ensure that your pores are clean!”

“Spend at least as much time trying to get inside her head as you trying to get into her bed.”

“Give your sweetheart tickets and take her to see her favorite team.”

“offer a massage”

“Be a good listener! Women love men who try to understand, not just "fix" the problem.”

“Give your sweetheart some nice chocolates.”

“Tell your mom you love her.”

“Keep up your appearances!”

“Shower before getting together!”

“entertain the kids in the morning and let mummy sleep in. She just might reward you for it later.”

“be thoughtful of your manners!”

“Wash your face every night.”

“Buy her flowers”

“Live your life with passion”

“Take out the trash or load the dishwasher without being asked. It's the small things that count as foreplay to a woman who's been at work all day and is exhausted.”

“Give her a few heartfelt butterfly kisses on her neck.”

“Give flowers and candy before you kiss.”

“Hug--more hugs--hug!!”

“Compliment, compliment, compliment”

“Kiss whenever you see each other.”

“Don't sweat the small stuff.”

“When you buy perfumes/colognes and soap products make sure that the recepient is not allergic to the product...some people break out in hives and skin rashes..This is NOT very romantic...”

“Do leave a love note somewhere in a drawer that she will find later in the day.That will brighten the whole day!”

“Give her a day without housework, without children, to do whatever she wants...nap, watch a movie, read a book.”

“moisten lips”

“Be flex and do what he likes”

“Never forget to say "I love you" to your spouse everyday. It shows that you really care about their feelings.”

“Look him straight in the eyes when you're telling him about the great pair of new shoes you just bought on sale and saved 60%.”

“never go to bed angry”

“Read directions!”

“Admit you are wrong when you are and apologize”

“go out in the snow for a sled ride”

“Don't give your woman a vacuum cleaner for Valentine's Day.”

“Go on a blind date and have a great time.”

“Do use compliments”

“wash your face daily”

“Give your special someone your full attention when they're talking.”

“Do write a thoughtful note in her card! It will mean so much.”

“While on a date, please turn off cell phone.”

“When out on a date, do act like a gentleman and open doors for your date, for example.”

“Do shower your lover with kisses”

“Do feel relieved when your significant other tells you that you don't have to get them anything for Valentine's Day.”

“Do present a thoughtful gift.”

“Hand write a letter describing what you remember about your first date, or the day you got engaged, or some other important moment.”

“Keep it simple. Something low-key but well thought out is worth more than something flashy/expensive/generic.”

“Three words: booked a massage. Enough said!”

“I showed up for our Valentine’s Day date with a tiny little goldfish in a bag. My girlfriend is allergic to almost everything, including flowers and animals, so it was something pretty to look at that wouldn’t make her break out in hives. I told her that the goldfish would grow just like our love…”

“Don't but the rectangular box of chocolate, go for the heart shaped box!”

“Do not ask your special person FOR a gift”

“Don't talk about your ex AT ALL”

“Please know her size and the color shtes most. There is notr much worse then giving a size 16 woman a size 4 piece of clothing. Ity will only make her cry.”

“Even if she hates your gift - she'll hate you more if you did not get her one.”

“don't not shower!!”

“Don't bring tell her how you've got this Valentine's Day gift giving 'thing' down from experiences in previous relationships.”

“DON'T get her something that your ex- liked.”

“Don't eat spinach before your date!”

“DO NOT do NOTHING!”

“don't make her order her own gift”

“focus on self”

“Don't take her to dinner expecting her to pay.”

“Don't fall for an advertiser's claim about what she wants.”

“Don't do the same thing you did last Valentine like take her to the same restaurant, unless she really likes it. Do something new and special.”

“Don't give her a vacuum for Valentines Day.”

“Make cumsies before she is finished.”

“Buy a box of left over specially priced Christmas Chocolates and give it to us for Valentine's day!”

“Wear her perfume”

“Don't say Valentine's Day is: "Just Another Day"......”

“Make sure it is real - no turning your finger or neck green with the cheap stuff.”

“It's a special time to show her your appreciation. PLEASE don't wait until the last minute to buy a gift & don't buy her something you would buy yourself.”

“Don't buy her a vacuum cleaner - learned that the hard way!”

“Don't tell her how much sex she doesn't give you.”

“Opps, I mean... Don't ask her what she wants!”

“Don't wear boxers with holes or stains in them.”

“Don't forget to take her to her favorite restaurant, make reservations, and get there early, so you can get the best, before the rush.”

“Don't believe her when she says she doesn't want anything for V-day. At least get her a card and a single rose.”

“Don't buy her truffles, unless you're sure she likes truffles.”

“Don't wear a wife beater tank top on your date.”

“Don't forget Valentine's Day!”

“Don't go dutch.”

“Don't take her to see to see the action movie YOU want to see. Try and pick something you BOTH want to see isntead.”

“Skip buying / making chocolate covered ants.”

“Don't: Buy give a certifcate for a hair salon-Might be considered offesive.”

“Don't text at the dinner table.”

“Don't forget to wear deodorant.”

“Don't give perfume purchased from a $1 Store for $1.00 (No Matter How Pretty the Bottle Looks).”

“Don't act a fool and do something you might regret!”

“Don't answer the phone while you are being intimate!”

“Don't leave a shopping or "to do" list in their lunchbox to find later.”

“Do not invite a single friend to join you on your Valentine date.”

“Eat the last of the potato chips!”

“Don't forget to say "I love you."”

“Do not go to a fast food place for dinner. It may be cheap but will also make your date feel.”

“Eat all the chocolates before you give them to your sweetie”

“Don't forget women want gifts on Valentine's Day no matter how much they claim they don't. So don't forget!”

“Do not forget to get flowers for your lady!”

“Don't write "I love you" in the mirror, especially with her new lipstick”

“DON'T buy a cheap kitchen appliance... Trust me, it's not going to be the reaction you are expecting ie: coffe maker, toaster, etc. (We can buy these ourselves, Any Day.)”

“dont give your dieting loved one a box of chocolates, no matter how fancy the box”

“No not show up with candy and a card. Put your personal touch in a gift so I know you thought about me.”

“Don't write cheesy poetry to her!”

“Don't tell her you'll get her chocolates after Valentine's when they go on sale.”

“Dont just sign your name to a Valentine card and call it a day. Write something, some little sweet SOMETHING no matter how cheesy you feel. It really makes a difference!”

“don't just buy flwers off a street vendor”

“don't drink pop”

“Don't tell your sweetheart that you have a coupon for dinner and she should meet you there.”

“Don't give an expensive gift if you know your partner cannot afford an expensive one for you.”

“Dont get edible clothing, ever.”

“Dont get flowers or stuffed animals, its cliche and creative gifts are always the best”

“Don't do cliched Valentine's Day gifts like red roses and jewelry.”

“Don't think that just because it's Valentine's Day you're guaranteed to get "lucky".”

“Don't stare at other women/men in front of your SO!”

“don't text your Vday greeting and think you're done”

“do not buy a card and not even write something in it. signature doesn't count.”

“Buy her a pot for a gift.”

“Dont buy her a vacum for valentines day!”

“do not smoke”

“Don't overpraise because then it sounds like flattery.”

“Make her feel not special”

“Don't forget to cherish every day, not just the "special" ones.”

“Don't mock the day, it makes you seem bitter.”

“Do the same old cheesy flowers and chocolates!”

“Don't tell your husband not to get you anything for Valentine day because he;ll probably listen to you and won't get you anything. Then when you co-workers ask what you husband got you'll feel really bad!!”

“Do not call her by your ex's name.”

“Don't give her a re-gift from you old girlfriend.”

“Don't be afraid to talk”

“Don't have her pick out her own gift.”

“Don't try to be funny when you should be sweet.”

“Don't pick something for her that you THINK she will like..do pick something that you KNOW she will love”

“Don't tell her that its not the pants that make her butt look big...”

“Don't continuously tell her you are going to do something, but never do it.”

“Don't forget it's valentines day and get her nothing at all. Same for the woman! Remember guys like something nice too even though they don't expect it.”

“Don't get eat, burp up and then leave her with a table full of dirty dishes.”

“Don't make her call for takeout”

“don't forget about present!”

“buy high, sell low.”

“Don't eat sugar.”

“Don't stay on your cell phone at the restaurant.”

“Don't look at yourself in the mirror.”

“Take her to your favorite restaurant and then belittle her choice of entree.”

“Don't spend more that you can afford to impress someone.”

“Don't spend too much money and then bring up how much you spent.”

“Don't go over the top, unless she likes a crowd”

“Forget her birthday.”

“Sexy or Comical is OK but a heartfelt romantic valentine is the way to a woman's heart!”

“Don't mention your ex or complain about past dates...Leave that stuff in the past, be positive, and focus on the present!”

“Don't buy her a bowling ball.”

“"Recycle" gifts from other relationships!”

“Give her the same flowers you got your mom”

“Don't forget to shave!”

“dont over pluck your eyebrows”

“Do not "swear" as in profanity... whether happy or sad or angry. It's a big turn off!”

“never ever buy cleaning supplies or cleaning appliances.”

“Do not lie to her abput being in a relationship.”

“Don't believe her when she says she doesn't want anything special for Valentine's day.”

“Don't ever,never,call her by the wrong name!!”

“Never respect those that don't 'respect you'!”

“Don't take your life for granted”

“Don't buy cheap chocolates.”

“say you'll watch the kids and then lose one of them at the store.”

“Don't buy her a gift the last minute from the local gas station.”

“Don't forget Valentine's Day”

“Don't pick a fight in the morning then get to work and realize it is valentines day, hurry home with flowers and think that is going to work.”

“don't lie”

“Don't wait until the last minute to buy gifts!”

“Don't buy her flannel pj's”

“don't over eat”

“DON'T LIE”

“Get upset if your elaborate plans don't work - just spend time together!”

“Don't be like everyone else and just buy her flowers. Go out of the way and surprise her with something amazing. Be thoughtful and romantic.”

“Brush your teeth and take a bath.”

“Don't take yourself too seriously. Awkwardness is bound to happen, shake it off.”

“don't frown..”

“Don't spend the entire time talking about yourself. Dialog -- not a lengthy me, me, me monologue - is key!”

“don't surprise her by buying yourself gifts instead.”

“Do not give her flowers you took out of the neighbors yard!”

“clip your toenails, and let the chips "fall where they may" its gross!”

“Don't give your sweetheart meat for valentines.”

“Don't call her a "chick."”

“talk about your old boyfriend or girlfriend.”

“Do remember all special occasions with a gift, no matter how small.”

“Don't pass wind in the car.”

“Don't forget to get a Valentine!”

“Don't stop any chocolate consumption!”

“Don't forget her on V day!”

“Don't go to bed without brushing your teeth.”

“Don't split the bill !”

“Don't cheat”

“Dont give her a twinkie for Valentines Day”

“Don't leave the seat up.”

“perform magic tricks or juggle.”

“wear courdoroy pants”

“be mean to the waiter/waitress”

“Continue to talk about your mother throughout the date.”

“be lame”

“Don't interrupt! Listen when he/she talks!”

“Don't lie!”

“Don't talk in Circles, To many mood swings can give a gal Whip lash and then your in trouble. If you have a problem just spit it out. Girls handle things much better when they Know exactly what your upset about”

“answer your phone during dinner”

“Do not use the words ' You never...' or 'You always...' - my hubby and I made a pact to not use those phrases...and 21 years later it is still helping!”

“Talk about old girlfriends!”

“Don't look at (check out) other girls when you are with your date!”

“The friends you make when you are young are the most honest & valuable. Don't take them for granted as you get older.”

“Show her she is appreciated with small tokens of affection.”

“burn things”

“Don't be a stalker. That went out in the early 90s”

“act like you're still in high school!”

“Don't expect her/him to be like your last love.”

“don't spend the night online!”

“don't be shy or she will go the other way.”

“Don't look at other women.”

“don't tell her you love her if you're not sure”

“Don't think that approaching a woman and "keeping it real" by telling her what STD's you've had in the past, will get you her number...”

“Don't leave pictures of your ex in your bedroom three years after your breakup”

“Guys, do not buy the same Valentine's Day card for your lover that you bought last year. If you're like me and keep your cards, getting the same one you got the previous year, not good!!”

“Flush the toilet with your foot and drop your shoe in on the first date.”

“Don't fight about the little things.”

“Don't use the term "old Lady" to describe the woman in your life. Women hate that.”

“don't turn him down too often, men eguate that with feeling lovable.”

“Ignore what she's telling you at the dinner table, she might test you later.”

“take your girlfriend to a buffet on valentine's day.”

“Nothing quite says he's just not that into her like sending and receiving texts...”

“don't expect a guy to kiss you on a first date if you smoke cigarettes-NASTY!! Unless HE also has the nasty habit,then I guess your smoke stench will cancel the other's out,right?”

“Don't be cheap. If you take her to a restaurant, let her order whatever she wants!”

“Talk on your phone during the date”

“Don't buy at the grocery store what you can make at home.”

“Don't have your friends tag along.”

“DO NOT MAKE THAT SPECIAL DAY SOUR IN ANY MANNER FOR YOUR BELOVED”

“Don't be cheap!”

“Don't argue with the waiter while dinning out”

“Don't talk about your ex-wife all night”

“Don't share that you own the complete Jackass DVD collection”

“don't simply say "let's get it on" >=(”

“Don't wait too many days before washing your hair. It gets gross, slimy, and greasy.”

“Don't bring up past relationships on Valentine's Day! Leave it in the past...”

“Watch sports all day”

“Don't buy household appliances for her as a Valentine's Day gift!”

“Don't blow off Valentine's Day, even if she says she hates it. She still expects something!”

“Don't roll your eyes at her, around her, nor even in a dream featuring her. Never, ever roll your eyes.”

“Don't tell her she's got a big butt!”

“Say I love you if you don't mean it”

“Don't be stupid take her out dancing and work it.”

“Don't be an uptight old fart.”

“Say you thought she wasn't a flowers and chocolate kind of girl anyway!”

“Don't wash her favorite wool "dry clean only" wrap in the washer; and shrink it to the size of a barbie towel.”

“Don't buy her sexy lingerie unless you know her EXACT size!”

“Don't buy her a salad spinner for VDay... seriously.”

“Throw every article of clothing that you wear wherever you disrobe.”

“don't expect her to clean up the mess you made.”

“Don't decide she needs a ceramic clown collection and buy the first three. Turns out, she thinks clowns are creepy.”

“Don't make her a delicious dinner, but then forget to clean up and do the dishes!”

“Don't sit on your butt expecting her to wait on you.”

“Dop not forget important dates such as birthday's , anniversaries, etc.”

“Don't give your wife a vacuum cleaner for Valentine's day, and don't ask me how I know this.”

“When she comes home from the beauty salon with a new hair style- don't make "that" face when she ask you if you like it.”

“Stare at the tv drooling over actresses while totally ignoring the hottie sitting next to you.”

“Let your pride get in the way from admitting you were wrong.”

“Act all weird when she gives you a gift because you can't handle affection or love.”

“Don't tell her, "Oh, wow! So that's what you look like without makeup."”

“Don't try and get close to her if you have gnarly toenails!”

“Don't complain about the clothes she wears.”

“Don't discuss bills over dinner. That means during food prep time as well. Its bad for the digestion and bad for the recipe as well.”

“Don't discuss bills over dinner. That means during food prep time as well. Its bad for the digestion and bad for the recipe as well.”

“Don't wear tons of perfume. Its been proven men prefer the natural pherimones of women especially during ovulation. Besides, lots of people have asthma.. be considerate.”

“Don't forget to tell her how great she looks. Often!”

“Resist the urge to do "drunken karaoke", unless you really have talent”

“Don't insist on being right all the time. It's ok to let her be right and be man enough to accept it!”

“check the game score while half way listening to her tell you something dear to her heart”

“Don't hurt someone's feelings just because you are mad”

“If you don't take a chance, you don't have a chance!”

“don't send her a text message saying that all you want is her mind, body and soul.”

“dont ask if she wants something for her bday - just get a gift”

“Don't eat sushi in class!”

“Don't date married men.”

“keep asking me to meet my mother.”

“date more than one woman and tell each they are the only one you're seeing!”

“Don't say that you will call and then "forget"!”

“treat her like crap!”

“forget their birthday!”

“dont call them names”

“Forget Valentine's Day..big no no!!”

“think that screwdrivers are healthy”

“lte'e, get you down”

“DON'T JUST WATCH TV WHILE HE/SHE DOES WORK, HELP OUT!”

“Keep your stinky socks laying around!”

“Do not leave towels on the floor of the bathroom.”

“Don't take a long hot bath. It will dry out your skin.”

“Don't do it without soap.”

“Put the seat down”

“leka1722@live.com”

“Don't ignore her text messages!”

“Don't plan to celebrate her birthday by watching football.”

“Don't treat special days/holidays like just another day.”

“Don't leave your clothes on the floor!”

“Burp your "Good Morning"”

“Don't ask if she's washed your jeans yet”

“Don't go through the drive-thru for Valentine's Day.”

“Get her cat neutered as a Valentine's Day present.”

“Buy her a packet of seeds to grow her own roses”

“Don't wait until the last second and get whatever is left over at the gas station on your way home.”

“Don't give her pasties.”

“Don't give chocolates if she is on a diet”

“Don't give her a sweeper”

“Don't give her gadgets.”

“Don't forgot Valentine's Day entirely!”

“don't eat beans”

“Don't put tomatoes in the refrigerator”

“got it! valentine day ‘99 i was in a struggling relationship (struggling because i had recently found out my ex had been calling a girl in los angeles he knew, way too much). V-day arrived, and i let him know he was not obligated to get me anything. we were over as far as i was concerned. i get to my apartment ( he was living with me ), and he had laid out a card and gift for me. On the envelope the card said: To my princess [my name]. we spend the night together. the next morning he offered to take me to school. i was in art school at the time, so i had sketch boards, art supplies, etc., so, a ride was readily accepted. i get to the car, and i’m waiting by the back seat passenger side for him to unlock it. i see a envelope which read : To my first love [the girl in los angeles]. i wait for the door to unlock, while tiny amounts of smoke escape my hears. door unlocks. i snatch the envelope. rip the card and love note to her out. he leaps over the back seat, and snatches it out of my hand. i get into the car, because this fool was still taking me to school. as the school day concluded, i went home, grabbed every trash bag i could find, an placed all of his beloved polo ralph lauren shirts, ties, towels, pillows, etc,. into them. i placed everything at the front door. i even considered stabbing the $75 velvet polo teddy bear he brought me thru the front door, jut so he knew i meant business, but i did not. he arrived. perfectly timed, r. kelly’s, when a woman’s fed up, came on the radio. he saw everything, lost his temper, and i was perfectly willing to do him harm if need be. he called his friend, and believe his words were: it finally happened. the end (of sorts)”

“Don't forget to tell her you love her.”

“Don't criticize and make your man feel small by focusing on his weaknesses. We all know our faults and don't need to be reminded of them as we're doing the best we can.”

“cheat”

“Don't look at other women when she's with you!”

“do not be nasty”

“Don't do generic. Your valentine is not generic!”

“don't lie”

“Don't buy her a meatloaf pan for any holiday gift...just don't...stick to jewelry, or candy...trust me.”

“Don't get overly mushy - a woman wants a man”

“Dont put all your focus on watching sports”

“Don't drink too much carbonated beverages.”

“Don't talk about your ex on a first date.”

“Don't talk about your exes on your first date.”

“Don't over eat, have small meals every 4 to 5 hours.”

“Don't wear tons of perfume!”

“Buy her a fake flower arrangement that will do nothing but collect dust, like your relationship. Keep it fresh!”

“Do NOT cut your own hair...no matter how terrible the economy is.”

“Don't use products tested on animals.”

“use paper plates”

“don't get stuck in the snow on your way to dinner”

“Don't just buy the old standard Valentine's Day stuff out of habit-- come up with a gift that's meaningful to your sweetie.”

“Don't ever forget her birthday, Valentines Day or your anniversary.”

“Don't give her a toilet seat cover for Valentines Day”

“Don't forget the flowers. Don't call her by the wrong name. Don't try to be cheap.”

“Do *NOT* leave red nail polish on your toenails for longer than 2 weeks!”

“don't be vindictive”

“DON'T LEAVE YOUR SMELLY GYM CLOTHES ON THE BEDROOM FLOOR”

“eat all of the candy you just brought her...”

“Don't presume you're funnier than you really are. Nothing comes off worse than a smarmy individual who thinks his/her own jokes are funny.”

“dont drink booze”

“Don't pick your nose during dinner.”

“Don't take her to fast food restaurant.”

“Don't get it from the gumball machine.”

“Don't buy flowers from a gas station!”

“forget the special day”

“don't frown”

“Don't lotion up your feet BEFORE getting into the shower. DANGER! DANGER!”

“Don't forget the day altogether and call your girlfriend in the middle of the night (after midnight) drunk and wish her happy valentine's day!”

“Don't tell her that her feelings are "stupid".”

“Don't call her by another girl's name.”

“Give her a t-shirt of her favorite team.”

“put my hands on your back as soon as i get home and nudge me into massaging YOU”

“Don't turn up empty-handed on your sweetheart's doorstep on Valentine's Day.....HUGE no-no!”

“Don't give your sweetheart a diet cookbook.”

“Don't spend the whole time talking about your new car.”

“Don't talk about money, the bills or the job when you want romance.”

“Don't talk only about yourself. Ask questions to get the conversation going.”

“Don't give alcohol then drink it all!”

“Don't give her a kitchen appliance for Valentines Day!”

“Don't get drunk!”

“Don't grope your wife while she's using the curling iron...that can be dangerous.”

“Don't be predictable when you are being romantic. Make sure your lover actually likes flowers or jewelery before you buy them. Not all women do.”

“Don't discuss past relationships with your spouse.”

“Don't flagelate before trying to make love.”

“Don't sweat the small stuff.”

“Don't buy cheap flowers that die the very next day.”

“Offer to do the dishes for a year. It's a thoughtful gesture and it will give her more time for romance.”

“Never go to bed angry”

“Never pay for a guy's food.”

“don't wear makeup to bed”

“Don't give her a gift that is something you think would make her chores or job easier”

“Don't buy a card and forget to give it to her!”

“Don't confuse a grocery store heart shaped box of chocolates with a thoughtful gift.”

“Dont, forget to brush your teeth.”

“Don't skip out on buying a gift just because you were told you didn't have to get one.”

“Do NOT mistaken her name on said gift.”

“Don't take your date to a fast-food place and tell her she should be grateful you took her anywhere.”

“Buy her clothes that are either much too small OR much too large.”

“dont listen to your girlfriend when she tells you fois gras is french for cheese & crackers”

“Tell your wife she looked better in 1985.”

“I tried to kill two birds with one stone by taking both my mom and my girlfriend out for Valentine’s dinner at the same time. Neither one of them was very happy with me after that…”

“Not only did I forget about Valentine’s Day, I had to run by a grocery store and try and make the slim pickin’s workable. Needless to say, my neglect was evident.”